Being a dual military couple and planning so far out (March 2013), I am seriously considering wedding insurance... just in case (all these hurricanes arent helping either)! Does anyone else have wedding insurance, or do you feel secure with the clauses in your contracts? Anyone have insurance company recommendations?
Re: Wedding Insurance
I'm also active duty (fiance is a civilian) so I completely understand your concern.
I would recommend talking to your vendors first, and seeing if you can put a clause in the contract that if either of you has orders to deploy, you'll get your deposit back. Most vendors will understand that you're in the military and will work with you. I would just make sure they know that missing your own wedding, while possible, is an extreme case, and that you would be able to provide orders to prove military deployment.
I've also found that by telling my vendors I'm in the military and asking about cancelation options, I've gotten a few decent discounts. I certainly wasn't expecting this, but it doesn't hurt:-)
If it's hurricanes you're worried about, then I would look at insurance :-)
I considered doing it, but decided not to. Got a pretty good rate from Travelers. Definitely look at the fine print.