UGH!!!!

suzieharris

I know many of you have read many of my posts.  I'm just gonna  say FI got layed off today.  4 days before the wedding.  What more can I say. 

right1thistime

Sorry to hear about that.  I hope that you can just focus on the joy of getting married for the short term- before you have to buckle down and figure out what's next.  ~Donna

melissamc2

Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that.  Just try to take a deep breath, get through the wedding, enjoy it every bit as much as you have been planning to, and get back to the grind next week.  I'm not making light of the situation at ALL, but this issue will still be around to worry about in a few days - marrying the guy you love is just one day.  Try your best to not let the good get overshadowed by the bad.  (Easier said then done, I know!)

Take care and I hope he finds something else soon!

Marrin713

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[QUOTE]Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that.  Just try to take a deep breath, get through the wedding, enjoy it every bit as much as you have been planning to, and get back to the grind next week.  I'm not making light of the situation at ALL, but this issue will still be around to worry about in a few days - marrying the guy you love is just one day.  Try your best to not let the good get overshadowed by the bad.  (Easier said then done, I know!) Take care and I hope he finds something else soon!
Posted by melissamc2[/QUOTE]

What she said.  Hugs

melliott09

So sorry! Of course, such a bad time, but it's never a good time to get laid off!! Hope he finds something soon!

AdelphiTN

As Scarlett O'Hara said - we'll worry about that anothuh day.  Practice saying that with a southern drawl.    As best as you can, set aside your worries and enjoy your wedding.

LesPaul

Aww, so sorry to hear that, Suzie. 

MikesAngie

Oh no... I'm sorry to hear that.  What a terrible thing to have happen.  Concentrate on getting through your wedding day - enjoy it!  Then next week or when you are back from your honeymoon, figure out what the next step is... You will be fine.

Cattm42

That sucks, but on the bright side he has time to help with all those last minute details now...
Not making light of your situation, I've just gotten back to work after being out for most of a year. I understand how bad it sucks, but take care and enjoy the wedding. Start the job hunting after.

embracejoy

I'm so sorry.  I hope he'll find something new and better very soon!  You're just getting a little bit of the "worse" part of "for better or for worse" a little bit early.  You're a team now, and you can help each other get through any obstacle!

That being said, try not to let it destroy your joy!  Focus on your wedding this weekend, have a wonderful time and think about all of the positive blessings in your lives!

thealphabride

I'm so sorry Suzie!!!
When God closes a door he opens a window. I'm sure you don't want to hear this right now but that is what thought came to my mind. The best is yet to be!!!

Focus on your wedding right now and try not to let this overshadow your joy.

My thoughts are with you both.

Erin McCormack

Suzzie, i'm so sorry to hear that.  I know, sometimes you just feel what else can happen.  
Then you have to look on the bright side. 
      Four day's extra to help tie up all the loose ends for the wedding.  
      The two of you have a bright brand new future ahead of you.  Enjoy it, take   
      it all in and they'll be plenty of time afterwards to tackle the road ahead. 
      As they say, when one door closes another one opens.  It may not be in our
      time, but, it's in the right time.  Everything hapens for a reason and I'm sure
      that when that time comes everything will line up, it always does. 

For now, you have each other, your love and commitment your truely blessed. 

Our thoughts and prayers are with you

Erin

Lisa50

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[QUOTE]I'm so sorry.  I hope he'll find something new and better very soon!  You're just getting a little bit of the "worse" part of "for better or for worse" a little bit early.  You're a team now, and you can help each other get through any obstacle! That being said, try not to let it destroy your joy!  Focus on your wedding this weekend, have a wonderful time and think about all of the positive blessings in your lives!
Posted by embracejoy[/QUOTE]

Ditto ... I'm sorry this happened (at all).  Timing of these things is never good.  FOUR MORE DAYS until the first day of a wonderful future with the man you love.

((((HUGS)))))

suzieharris

Thank you all for your warm thoughts.  You guys are the BEST!!!!