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Hello... I'm back!

Good Monday morning, ladies!

Thanks to right1 for letting you know why I've been MIA.  Thanks so much for all of the kind words and positive vibes.  Trying to juggle my father's death, caring for my mom (who has Alzheimer's), getting my son off to college, learning the ropes on the new job has been all-consuming.  Oh, and the fact that we have absolutely unreliable internet connection here at home was the kisser.  Blah!

So ... here's my update ---

Although my dad had been sick, his passing was relatively quick and, with the help of hospice, pain-free. He died at home, which was his wish.  Because mom has Alzheimer's, it was especially tough going. 

My son is loving college!  He's doing well (I assume), with most communication via text.  I figure that no news is good news.  He walked on to the track team -- his high school events were discus and shotput -- and he's now training for the decathlon.

I love my new job.  I'm not quite as productive as I'd like to be, so I am trying to give myself a break.  If only I could get some relief from hot flashes, which wake me at night, so that I could feel refreshed every morning.  Ugh!

And, last (for now), but not least, hubby and I have been gaining weight.  I haven't gotten on a scale, but don't really need to ... so I'm trying to eat better and get back into some sort of exercise routine.  When I quit teaching Tae Kwon Do (about six months ago) I lost my cardio, strength and stretching work-outs.  Needless to say, my body hasn't been the same since.  LOL!

I hope you're all doing well.  It's good to be back.  Cheers!

Re: Hello... I'm back!

  • MikesAngieMikesAngie member
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    edited December 2011
    Good to hear from you!! It sounds like your plate has been very full without needing to worry about us.

    I'm sorry for your loss ((hugs)).

    Glad to hear your son is enjoying college life, and that you love your job!!

    Sleep or specifically the lack thereof aids in weight gain, as does stress - so gaining a weight is normal in your current situation. That doesn't mean you need to be happy about it. Speaking of which I need to get back into my walking routine... 

    It's wonderful to hear from you!  ~ Angie
  • edited December 2011
    So sorry for your loss.  {{HUGS}}

    Definitely give yourself that break...  We all need them now and again.
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  • edited December 2011
    So sorry for your loss ... but so glad to see you back. I too am adjusting to life without my oldest. I still look up at the back door at 10:30 every night waiting for her to come home ...
    WELCOME BACK!
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  • Sue-n-KevinSue-n-Kevin member
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    edited December 2011

    Awww Lisa, I'm so sorry about the loss of your dad. I am glad to hear it was painless and his wishes to be home were able to be met. Also sorry for the "loss" of your Mom due to Alzheimer's. I know her loss is gradual, but draining nonetheless.

    Welcome to the "kid's off to college" group. My son had a terrible time adjusting to being away from home, sounds like yours is not, which is great. I'm sure he'll continue to make you proud. After about a month, I stopped worrying about him though, figured if I could move away at 21 to an area where I knew no one, he'd be fine. Where did he go to school? How far away?

    I remember hot flashes and insomnia from menopause. It really sucked. I also remember having to deal with a new job and getting the hang of it. You have a lot on your plate, so forgive yourself the temporary weight gain. Angie is right, lack of sleep and stress alone contribute to weight gain all by themselves with no change in diet. When I had such wicked hot flashes, I stopped drinking coffee and switched to diet Pepsi, now Pepsi Maxx. Hot liquids are a vasodilator, as is caffeine.........by having a colder version of caffeine I found it lessened the attacks during the day. You'll get back on top of the weight gain soon, I'm sure.

    Allow yourself some treats just for being an amazing "you" and to get yourself through the stress. An occasional massage, a small piece of chocolate, whatever helps.

    Good luck and keep us posted.



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