Hi ladies!
First off, this is not my 1st marriage. I have been divorced for 3 years and now I am engaged to my best friend: literally. We've known each other since high school. He is the most wonderful man I've ever known and my 5 year old daughter adores him.
My problem is that my mother wants nothing to do with our engagement, wedding, NOTHING. I told her flat out that I didn't expect nor care for her to pay for anything beng that she's done it once before. Im a grown woman and my fiancee and I are paying for our wedding ourselves.
It hurts me deeply to hear that she "will not be my cheerleader" for this occassion. I don't see any issues remarrying. I have informed her that if she didn't want to be involved and wanted to be a Debbie Downer, that she didn't have to attend. More than likely, she will not be there.
So my question is...am I in the wrong? Am I wrong to basically uninvite my own mother because she causes nothing but grief and makes me feel like a bad person on a constant basis? I have other family members that are 110% emotionally supportive that are ecstatic for me.