Second wedding for me, first wedding for him. I'm 39, he's 28. I have 2 children (12 and 11). I'd prefer a simple, small wedding - he says he's only going to do this once and wants a full blown wedding and reception.
Thoughts on church wedding for second wedding? I really picture an outdoor/backyard wedding but he wants more (and I'm okay with that). I know everyone says "It's your wedding, do what YOU want" but have times changed enough that a church wedding for a second wedding is "okay?"
I plan to wear ivory and LOVE the Maggie Sotterro Phillipa. It has a slight train and I'm unsure whether that would be "too formal" - or again, does it matter?

Then comes the veil. I've been reading other posts about it really being a personal opinion. I like the veils that just go under the hair in the back (no blusher) so I think I'll go with that.
Another thing - our parents will help pay for the wedding but we plan on paying for some ourselves too. I would really LOVE for my 12-year old son to walk me down the aisle but I don't want to offend my father (who walked me down the first time). Would it be appropriate for both to walk me down? Or just stick with my son?