Well I've been here around years ago talking to the knoties, but life came in our way, and we are still dealing with the problems, when out of the blue, we started talking again about wedding! This would be his 2nd and my 3rd; we are in our late forty's/early fifties and together we have grown up kids from the previous marriage. I have three sons (31, 28 and 14) and he has two daughters (19 and 13).I have a lot of doubts like what kind of wedding gown should I wear (we are aiming for a Destination Wedding in a beach) that is chic, elegant and not to much bridal (looking for pastel colors like champagne, ivory). I want to have a beautiful wedding but something appropriated for our age because my time of Princess diana is far way, but I want something else that all our guests can enjoy, his family pretty much that will be attending the wedding as well, my girl friends from my church's single group. And i wanted also do something different where everybody would have fan while attending our wedding. If you ladies can fill me in with some ideas, I'd appreciate tremendously!!!