I was married to my highschool sweetheart for nearly 4 years and together 7 years. I married at the age of 19 as I thought he was the one. for 3 of those 4 years I worked 40-50 hrs a week paying the bils and making ends barely meet. My ex barely worked at all and didn't try to help the situation as well as didn't put forth the effort of our relationship. I wanted to go to school but with us barely making ends meet that was impossible for me to do. I finally said enough was enough and we seperated in January 2011 our divorce just finalized but in the meantime I've been with this great guy who loves me dearly and we support each other 100% He's a soldier and I work 40hrs a week in a call center, we are about to get our own apartment together. We've also been discussing marriage this winter...I know it seems really quick but we love each other. I moved away from everything I know to be with him near base. I do not have any kids from my first marriage. His parents adore me and know of my past and they approve of us getting married.