We are having fh's 8 yo daughter and my 6 & 8 yo sons stand up for us. My 6 year old is profoundly autistic. Not sure if he will make it through the whole ceremony but I think we are going to have the boys by me so if he wants to hold my hand he can, the his dd will be by him.
Should we list them simply as daughter of the groom....son of bride? Any other ideas? Can I call them groomsmen/ bridesmaid even though they will be on opposite sides?