WHITE? second time around?

wileyalie

i am having trouble that is two situations wrapped in one...  both of us have been married before and have kids. i found the perfect dress for our outdoor, summer, casual wedding... PROBLEM? its white! my mother is having a cow about me wearing white, fh says its our day and the dress is perfect (hes seen pics). Friends say wear that one. how do i either get my mother to get past this or should i find a different dress or maybe dye this one???? Please help!

wileyalie

situation is difussed... i bought a black and white dress!!!!!!! lmbo

LesPaul

Wear whatever you want to wear.  White does not indicate purity or virginity.  It doesn't matter if it's your first, second, third, or seventh wedding - wear what is comfortable for you and your FI.

MikesAngie

White can mean joy and happiness - but wear whatever makes  your heart sing and you feel like a bride!

2dBride

My wife and I both wore white (well, ivory) dresses for our wedding--even though our attendants were my two grown children.  I'm pretty sure no one assumed I was a virgin.

debi1941

Black and White...perfect.....everyone is happy !

Congrats!

AbbeyS2011

It is your wedding, not your mothers.  Wear whatever you like and let her have a cow.  If white is for "virgin" brides only, then very few brides out there would be able to wear white LOL.

ajp1975

I am having the same trouble. Momma doesn't want me to wear white, actually I don't think she wants me to have a wedding at all. I'm not sure because she won't even discuss it. She approves of the marriage though. I found the perfect white dress that is in my budget and well I think I am going to get it. It is a little fancy, but if I have a wedding then I'm going to wear that dress.  Glad your situation worked out.  Good luck with everything!