I am trying to get suggestions for my wedding. We are thinking about a Destination Wedding because we could enjoy a mini vacation with our family and close friends, have a nice but casual ceremony, a great reception where everybody would have lots of fun. Because this is my 3rd and his 2nd and we are in our late fourties/early fifties with grown ups and teen kids, we want something chic, but not traditional and very meaningful. Our kids will be in the wedding party, but we won't have anything else particular like candle ceremony; we are very much like a family already and wouldn't make sense do this now, after so many years that we've been together. What do you think about a Spa with lunch for the women and scuba dive or other different sport for the men and in the night a lual dinner for everybody? I am sure I won't wear white, so I am looking for a long not bridal dress in pastel colors for me and I want short dresses for my BM. FI is very flexible and thinks that I have a better taste than he does and because of it, he relys on me for everything .I am sort of a professional, but my background is extremelly European and I am not sure how this will work with his family and my friends, mostly Americans...so far, every party that I organized my friends and him absolutely loved! So I have to trust my guts. Any other idea that you gentle ladies could give me I would appreciate very much. I'd love to organize something very American for my FI just to honour him and his family. Thanks for help me!!!