Hello! I'm new here (well, kind of). My fiancé and I just got engaged a week a go. This will be the second wedding for both of us. We are a young couple (both 35, we met three years ago). He has two young children (they were 3 and 5 when we met, and I have an amazing relationship with them). Both of our first marriages ended with infidelity on our exes parts and we were left with nothing. We live in his Dads house and have nothing. We are using Dads old dishes, pots and pans, silverware, everything. We both had big weddings the first time and I'm not sure if I am able to register again. Everything I registered for the first time left behind with my ex husband, not by my choice. It was either leave everything behind or fight an abusive man for forks. Any advice?