We're all grown ups here.
Honestly, I scratch my head sometimes when I read posts, on this board and others, in which brides ask for others' opinions but then get snippy (sometimes flagrantly, sometimes very subtly) when the reply isn't exactly what they want. Why bother? Why ask if you don't want to receive honest feedback?
Here's my unsolicited $0.02. Don't ask if you don't want honest feedback. We won't give it. Unless, of course, the post begins with ... "I need you to tell me what I want to hear, I'm not in the mood for honest feedback. Just tell me what I want to hear." I promise, if you start your post that way, I will mirror your opinion, 100%.
That is all.