I just have to get everyone's opinion on this.... Since I didn't have the dream wedding the first go round... in fact my first wedding cost me a total of $100. Is it wrong of me to want what every girl wants... the big fancy wedding the 2nd time around? I have read all of the etiquite websites that I can find and they are telling me that there is nothing wrong with it, there are just a few things that should be left our like the blusher veil. A few of my friends have made comments that I shouldn't be going all out since this is my 2nd marriage and my FI's 3rd marriage. He tells me to do what ever I want. My family is supportive of the big wedding. I was just trying to get some other opinions. Thanks for the help.