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how rude. Vent

soon to be mrs phamsoon to be mrs pham member
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up untill today i had gotten no rude comments on this being my second wedding but today i got the mother of them all. " I know you like Weddings and all but remeber you dont have to keep switching partners to enjoy them." I feel like saying to her who the BLEEP do you think you are?
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  • ReidBreilingReidBreiling
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    edited December 2011

    Omg!!!!!!!! Where the heck to some of these people get off with this bs!?!

    I'm honestly so sick and tired of hearing it. I've been burned at the stake left and right lately. I think it's pretty ironic that people are fine with your life when you are completely unhappy but the minute you are happy, they will try everything to ruin that happiness and damn you for it all. At least that is how it has been for me.

    I got married back in 2004 at the age of 19. I was married for 6.5 years... and the entire time I hated it and was so unhappy. I was the one who filed for divorce but I did it because I no longer could stand my husband. FI was married at the age of 18 and divorced in 2006.

    When I met my FI, it wasnt like we were looking... things just fell into place and happened. Neither one of us have been happier and we refuse to let others bring us down.

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  • winsteadwinstead member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm sorry you had to hear this from someone. Sounds like she is miserable and wants some company. Hope you didn't let this ruin your day or your engagement or anything.
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  • Scarlet Starlet 31Scarlet Starlet 31 member
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    edited December 2011
    WOW!   I can't believe someone said that to you!!!!! 
    WTF is wrong with people!!!!!!!!!
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  • AbbeyS2011AbbeyS2011 member
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    edited December 2011
    That is possibly the worst comment about remarriage I have ever heard.  I don't care if you have been married as many times as Elizabeth Taylor or Zsa Zsa Gabor.

    After my exH and I split up and divorced (was really ugly) a "friend" tried to counsel me by saying I needed to devote my life to raising my kids and not to consider another relationship until after they were grown.  FH and I met online, and I kept our relationship secret from her until a few days before I moved out here to be with him. 
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  • Sue-n-KevinSue-n-Kevin member
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    That has to be the rudest comment I've ever seen on here. I think my response would have been something like "So, you enjoy hanging around and making people feel miserable so much that you have to have a BIRTHDAY every year?!?!"
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  • Lisa50Lisa50 member
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    edited December 2011

    Proof positive that some people are insane, rudely insane.  Crap!  I am so sorry you had to endure that mess. (((HUGS)))

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  • soon to be mrs phamsoon to be mrs pham member
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    edited December 2011
    thanks guys! ive been getting a couple of thoes today and yesterday goes to show you who your friends are.. im actually on a roadtrip with fh and was some so called friends who said these things. today it was shall we have a wedding for you every few years? oy.
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  • regfalangeregfalange
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    edited December 2011
    Wow, I'm really sorry to hear that someone said that to you.  But know this, all these chicks making these comments are probably the 22 year olds someone talked about before, who think they know everything.  But they don't and hopefully will end up with a divorce themselves!  They are just immature and probably jealous of your happiness.
    Celebrate we will, cause life is short but sweet for certain....
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  • mightyoakesmightyoakes member
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    edited December 2011
    WTF? Wow. To your face? These are friends or relatives? Because if they are friends, I think you need to either set them straight or get rid of them!

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  • pixtynpixtyn member
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    edited December 2011

    WOW!!!  Rude is too polite a term for that comment.  I am sorry that you got hit with that one!

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  • amy7177amy7177 member
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    edited December 2011
    That right there was absolutely horrible and you should report it. I mean it. Im so tired of these people. We log on here to check the boards for support or ideas with a happy thought in our head. THen when we see that stuff it shatters us bit by bit. Who are they to think they have that right to A. say you switch partners often? and B. belittle the reason you are getting married and dismiss it as only because you "like" weddings. Mariage is a big step. The ceremony and reception and all the other details is just the bonus. Good luck, and i really hope you report her.
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  • soon to be mrs phamsoon to be mrs pham member
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    edited December 2011
    shes not on here was friend of family
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  • renjon7798renjon7798 member
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    edited December 2011
    I think I would reach thru the phone and strangle her.  I thought my mother was bad about getting on me for planning a big traditional 2nd wedding, but I could never imagine anyone telling me that!  I like the birthday comment though!  That was a good one!

    BTW, congrats on your engagement and upcomming wedding!  Don't let the haters bring you down!
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