This is my second wedding but my fiance's first so we are having a fairly big wedding but still trying to keep it smaller due to cost. I am only inviting my immediate family and grandparents and some close friends to the wedding. So my question is who do I invite to the shower? Since my aunts and cousins are not invited to the wedding I don't feel like I should invite them to the shower because I don't want to seem gift grabby but I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings by not inviting them! What would you do? (My first wedding was seven years ago)