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Second Weddings

Second Wedding Gift Advice

I am going to my Maid of Honors second wedding this weekend but have no idea what to give in terms of money. It both her second and her fiances second wedding. On Long Island we always use plate price as a guide ($200-$250) but since it's a second wedding i'm at a lost. I did attend her first wedding and gave $$ as well. Any suggestions??

Re: Second Wedding Gift Advice

  • Just because it's a second wedding doesn't make it  worth less than the first wedding.  It's her first wedding to this man (I'm assuming, and not that she's having a do over--which is something else entirely). Give what is the usual in area, provided you can afford that amount, as if it were any other wedding. 
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  • Exactly what handfast said. ~Donna
  • jjswinjjswin member
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    That's what I thought but a lot of people were telling me to give less. Thanks for the advice guys!
  • Well, think of it this way.. no one is going to be truly upset or offended by the wedding being treated with the same level of enthusiasm, etc. (even in gift giving) as a first wedding.
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