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Invitations

So this will be my second marriage, his first.  I was on the way to changing back to my maiden name when Mr. Right put a ring on my finger!  I am now putting off changing my name with tax season upon us, then the wedding in September. So my question is can I get away with my maiden name on the invitations?  OR am I forced to put my current last name?  Is hyphenating it an option?  I would really love any ideas, thanks ladies! 
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Re: Invitations

  • edited December 2011
    It depends on how the majority of your guests know you.  Since I had been using my xH's name for 15 years, for many guests it was the only way they knew me.  I struggled as you are, and chose to put Donna maidenname xHname on the invite. ~Donna
  • edited December 2011
    [QUOTE]and chose to put Donna maidenname xHname on the invite. [/QUOTE]

    So Donna, did you hyphenate it?  And thank you SOOO much for your help!
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  • MrsJPalamarMrsJPalamar member
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    edited December 2011
    I am being casual with it and only using my first and middle and then his first and middle so it is like

    Ann Marie
    &
    Bob Allen


    It makes me happy not using ex's last name on the invite and still flows pretty well with the wording.
  • edited December 2011
    MrsJPalamar I love that idea and was actually thinking about it today.  I think I may just add my Fi's last name, but keep mine to first and middle!  Thanks so much!
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