I am 31 years old...was married at 21 and divorced after seven years of marriage. I went through a long divorce..was separated for a long time, and truly feel like I found myself in that whole mess! Well, the other night my fiance and I were reading through a book together (christian book on marriage) and I got this pit in my stomach and thought OMG I'm getting married again. It was a fleeting thought that lasted less than 30 seconds, but I am just wondering do you think this is normal? I dont want to go into this with fear, however, I think it goes with the territory...what do you think?