I am new to this board. I am getting married in six months. I got married when I was 18 at the court house. I did not have a wedding. We stayed married for 8 years, had one son, and got a divorce. He remarried and had a wedding and was married for 7 years and then got a divorce. Somehow he and I began speaking to each other again. His ex-wife was jealous and wouldn't allow him to talk to me even about our son. We have found they we have both grown up a lot in the last eight years and we never stopped loving each other. This will be my second marriage and his third. I want to have a wedding. I can't afford to go very elaborate, but I want to get married in a church, I want a beautiful dress, bridesmaids, etc. I'm not sure if it is right though. Since I was already married to him before. And I am not sure how much is too much. Plus if I get a dress, is white even appropiate? I have been looking at dresses and the majority I have seen are white. I am sort of lost on what all I need to do. Our families are all for us remarrying, but only part of them think we should have a wedding. So I'm not going to get much help from them. Any advise would be great.
Amanda