So, Fi invited his brother to be his groomsman, and he told him that he is not sure if he will make part in the wedding party. He didn't say what could be the reason or if he would get back to FI on that.
The first FI' s wedding was all done in his house. His brother's wife made all arrangements.
As soon as his X forgot about it, she started a confusion between both brothers that made them not talk for over six years. Finally they worked things out and went back to talk again, but because they live in opposite coasts, they don't see each other for over 8 years. Ou wedding will be like a family reunion, and he told to FI that he will be attending, but anyting else other than that. I really don't know what to think, and we have to get our wedding party together to order the tuxedos that will take about two months to be delivered. I am bothered, but not hurt, but I have a feeling that FI is hurt and very sad. Any ideas how to try working things around without any drama or invading any personal space? I don't know him at all...