How many months in advance is ideal to ask people to be in your bridal party? I keep seeing posts about brides who asked people early and regretted it and I don't wanna do that.
My second question is about who I'm contemplating having in my bridal party. I'm thinking my older brother, my good friend, my bro's best friend (who is like another brother to me), and FI's sister. Would it be weird to have a boy, girl, boy girl bridal party? (not necessarily in that order, but you get the point)
I think it sounds good, but I just like to bounce ideas off people and FI is asleep. lol