Ok, I guess I really needed some advice. Well my mom is an alcoholic and is always the center of attraction, I had planned on talking to her before the wedding so I can express how she may possibly act at the wedding. Which never happened, She hasn't really shown any interest in my wedding. Earlier in the year at my sisters graduation, she embarrassed me, my dad, and fiance, with skeleton in the closet like stories in front of people we just met. She just has to be the main show. Well she had asked me to make my sister the MOH, which I'm not close to and lives in another state. I agreed. Well after the graduation incident I didn't talk to either if them, I was embarrassed, and didn't feel I needed to make the "I'm sorry" call. I really did nothing. 3 1/2 months after the gradation still nothing from either of them, so I decided to go "just look" at some dresses, well I found one! and a bridesmaid one. So another month passed nothing, my mom called acted like nothing was wrong, and so I told her I got a dress, really no wow came from her. So I decided it my wedding why should I wait around for people I want in my wedding. They obviously don't really want any part. So I made my best friend from high school my MOH, I haven't told my sister yet, but got into a fight with my mom, she said she's not coming to my wedding, yea she told me to take my drama free wedding and shove it up my a**. So I finally told her, that's her choice, I also found a replacement MOH. I really wanted my best friend to be it from the get go. Well now I'm getting aggravated with my MOH, beacuse for 2 months I have been asking her to go look at dresses, and she got to do this and that, now I like damn your my best friend?? I feel like cause I'm too nice, people take advantage of me, and now that I strapping down, everyone is thinking I'm a bitch, please please help. I know it's long and choppy, but I tried to sum it up as best as possible.