So Ladies I need some advice please... When we got engaged and before we set a date, we wanted to set a budget... I asked my family and his if they would be willing to help out at all and if not thats ok to, I just wanted to know where we would stand if they didnt. I was so nervous to ask his mom, but I did. She sat on the phone with me so excited and told me to do whatever I wanted and she would help out as much as she could.. So we booked the hall. My mom put down both deposits, my dad has made 2 payments after that, and I have made a small payment. She has not said anything about my wedding or has even asked me any questions about it. Its not about the money (even though she said she help), but i feel like she is just not interested in asking anything about it, I dont expect her to be giddy cuz I know its 9 months away, but I feel like she is avoiding it because she isnt helping? The thing that upsets me the most is my parents are helping so much (which Im the bride and thats tradition) but they are also helping with our closing cost to our house. My dad made a comment saying he doesnt mind helping at all, but he'd like to see help from other people (his mom and dad). Should I have my FI sit down and ask whats up? Ugh help!!!