I'm the MOH in my cousin's October wedding. This past weekend she asked me how my speech was coming. I've only been to one wedding that the MOh gave a speech and an awful one at that. Is it truly necessary for me to give a speech? Its not that I don't love her, but with the hell that she has put me through from the moment she got engaged I don't think I can do this. I've gotten to the point where I don't even want to be part of her wedding. Do I really have to give a speech or can I go with more of a "congrats/best wishes" deal?