I am starting to think my FMIL hates me. First FI and I have been together for 7 years, and when we got engaged she just looked at my ring and smiled. Then when we sat down with them to discuss everything she demanded we have black tuxes when FI and I decided to go with chocolate. We told them 200 guests and FMIL said that wouldnt be enough for just their side, my mom trying to keep the peace said let her invite who she wants. When we were discussing the planning with them she asked what we wanted for rehersal, since it was their part to pay for, so we threw out a few ideas and she didnt like them, fine do what ever she wanted. Fast forward to April. I called and asked if she had made reservations for rehersal yet and where because my parents wanted to know. She haddnt made any reservations and it was my job to do so. Thanks for letting me know. I made reservations and FI decided the menu for Rehersal, whatever. I asked her to have her guest list to me by June 1 so we could get a head count and get them ordered. I FINALLY ordered them last week and her total was 19 invites. Ok, i order the invites and the next day she calls me with 25 more. Apparently she feels that I sprung it on her that I needed the list. Umm I have been bugging her about it for 3 months! Now she has her list, but we cannt send them out because she doesnt have the addresses. She is nice to her other son's wife, but it is like pulling teeth to get her to talk to me. I dont know if i can take it anymore.