Help! Disaster has struck mybridal party...my MOH and bridemaid/ planner are battling against each other with a situation that has nothing to do with the wedding. Both are cousins of mine were we grew up together as sisters. Bridesmaid A has stolen 2 pairs of shoes from MOH and hasn't been heard from in 3 weeks and been dodges mine and her phone calls and txt messages. Should I mediate the situation or should I cut responsibilty of event planner and take on this planning myself?