My soon to be husbands mother is a polite control freak!!!!! Every time something does not go her way, she likes to remind him that she doesn't have very long to live (I'm not buying it!). He's staying with her because she had surgery 6 months ago, and she likes to pretend that they are their own little family, her,him and his kids. She planned New Years without asking if we had plans and then he felt so guilty he canceled our plans! She has money so she offered to pay for the wedding, I said no, he said yes. But I know that she's going to make it the wedding she never got!!!! This woman still thinks he sleeps on the couch when he stays at my house.