Help! I'm getting married in June and my best friend is my bridesmaid (the only other one is my fiancé's sister and she lives far away)
Right after we got engaged, my best friend was completely uninterested. Every time I brought up wedding stuff, she would always say what she would be doing at her wedding (she is single....). We live across the street from eachother, and every time i would try to hang out, she would make an excuse and not offer a different time that worked better. It was bad enough that I point blank asked her if she was too busy to be involved in the wedding. She said that wasn't the case and it got a little better
She volunteered to help my future MIL with the shower, but my MIL is not the best at responding to emails. I recently decided to register at another place, so I texted my BM letting her know for the invites, after which I was informed that my MIL was not responding and so my BM wasn't involved. I just saw my MIL days before who told me that my BM had asked her about the invites because I was bugging her about them.
I can't kick her out...the dresses have already been ordered. But I don't know what to do! Each time my BM starts casually dating some random guy, it's Iike I don't exist. Our friendship is suffering, and I don't know what to do about it. My mom says she's just jealous.
Should I try talking to her again? I texted her asking if she wanted to be involved in the shower at all, no response. She always has her phone when she's with me, just in case someone more important texts her, so I know she has it. HELP?!?