Of the 5 girls in my bridal party, 3 are my sisters. I went with them to order their dresses this past Sunday. (One is out of state, so she is ordering separately). I gave them MONTHS notice to save & they only had to put half down. I also had a postcard that got them 15% off. Everyone ordered except my oldest sister. She claimed to not have the money. Mind you she is always telling us how she makes so much more money than we do (& she does. She's a nurse & I have seen her checks.) She told me she was going to write a check just so they would place her order, but that it was going to bounce! WTF! I told her not to do that. For some reason she refused to use a credit card. I was very upset because she had MONTHS notice & she also could have notified me BEFORE our appt. In any event, she said she would go order her dress this morning, but she is yet again full of excuses. I cannot deal with her stress. I want to just eliminate her now so that it's not more headaches down the line. She claims to always be "working" so I can already see her not even going to pick up her dress (I mean, she can't even order it on time) & them returning it, get her shoes, make her bouquet, help with basically anything, show up for rehearsal, etc. I made her a BM because she is my oldest sister. But she has been nothing but a headache to deal with the entire time. Always complaining about this & that. Is it ok to take her out of the wedding??? I don't want to look like a bad person, but she just isn't taking anything seriously. Thanks!