Yes, this is a MOB rant. My mother has a wedding gown for me, all ready bought and paid for when I was just a little one. Yup. Before I ever got engaged or even had a first kiss!
Now, I'm 26 years old and engaged to a wonderful man, and I'm wanting to plan my wedding, but my mother keeps looking at my ideas and saying "oh, but that won't go with your dress!"
The dress is lovely, but I'm not all that fond of it. It's a big one with a long train which I'm
okay with, but it's the sleeves I really
don't like. I'm just not into laced sleaves. I asked if I could have just a bit of the dress altered to my liking (seriously, just the sleaves would be fixed... probably) and she got very, very offended.
Of course, she is driving me nuts with more than just the dress, I have to include people I don't like, the cake I want is off the table and when I mention venues for wedding she gets all frustraited and insists I have the wedding where SHE wants it. After all, she is paying for it.
I cannot afford a wedding, if my mother won't pay I won't have a wedding, just go down and get married.
Am I being unreasonable to want a wedding to go at least half my way without paying for any of it?? If I am, let me know so I don't turn into a bridezilla!