Gift for 14 year old BM?

goetzr19

My cousin is my bridesmaid, and FI and I are trying to brainstorm some ideas for a BM gift for her.  The other BM's are getting wine bottles with a label that I am making along with a wine glass and a few other things that we have yet to decide.  We have a brewery here in town that makes AMAZING root beer and they make six packs with custom labels.  Would this be a good idea to put in her bag?  Any other ideas that we could give her?

RoxysMama

Maybe a gift card to the movies? or her favorite store?  I think the root beer idea is really nice b/c it is similar enough to the wine so she won't feel left out.  Maybe a personalized mug for her root beer? GL

suz62984

I agree. I like the root beer because she would feel included: however stick in a pass to the movies or a visa gift card for use at the mall.

Muffin'sMom

Love the idea of the rootbeer and engraved mug!  She can feel (legally) just like the big girls!

ZachandMere

My sister is 14 (and a BM) and I'm giving her a charm for her charm bracelet that is a wedding cake with a topper.  It's pretty cute and something she'll have to remember the day by.  I think you should consider how "adult" this 14year old is as some tend to "grow up" faster than others. 

goetzr19

I had thought about the gift card for the movies as well.  I'm going to ask her Mom and see if she can give me any ideas as well.  Thanks ladies!

SeptemberFall2011

For me-my entire party is getting a giftbasket with a willow tree figurine of a type, things they like or can use, and a thank you note.  you could make the gift about her if she likes hannah montana get her a dvd of a season or two.