Should bm's attend the rehearsal? If they are, what is a fair amount of notice to give to cancel on attending the rehearsal? Is 10 days notice before the rehearsal date by email fair? The duties of the bm's on TK indicate they are required to attend the rehearsal. I know this isn't the situation in every case but I just wanted to hear some opinions on this.
*edit. FI and I have attended all rehearsals for weddings we stood in and a few were more than 4 hours away. Just wondering normal ettiquette for this**