After being forced to have my older sister as my maid of honor (which I didn't want because she's never supported my fiance and I being together and I feel that the maid of honor should be someone thats been there from the beginning) My maid of honor has already picked out her dress, the shoes, and the hair she's doing without even telling me about it. My husband and I are having a Victorian-esque/vintage themed wedding and her choices are Miss America-like. She' also trying to put her input in every plan my husband and I make, and although I value her opinion she throws fits if things don't go her way. My husband and I want our wedding to reflect us and she just doesn't understand that. After getting overly frustrated about her I finally told her to stop because these are my decisions and if she doesn't like it I can find a new maid of honor. I was then accused of being a bridezilla. Do you think I am being a bridezilla? I really need some advice.
Thanks in advance