My FI is the youngest of 3 boys, he's 26, and right now we're living w/ his parents. He is a complete and total mama's boy. While he was in high school and college he dated a girl, we'll call her "K" for 6 years. Given how long they dated, "K" thought they would be married and her and my FMIL planned to have her wedding in the front yard. Now, my FMIL wants me to do the same thing, and if I don't then no one will come to the wedding. We aren't sure as to where we want to get married, but one thing is certain, it will not be in the front yard. My FMIL is extremely controlling. If she isn't in control she's miserable. It's ridiculous. It was like pulling teeth to get her to actually take my FI to dinner where he wanted for his birthday instead of where she wanted. We just recently became engaged and not planning to be married for almost 2 years. How do I tell her I'm not having my wedding in her front yard and deal with future control issues?