I am feeling like eloping would be nice right now. I just feel like we can't please everyone. It is so frustrating. My parents lost their job and money is super tight. My mom and I have been cutting people right and left and originally my fiancee and I agreed to keep the cost low. This past weekend he went to his mom's house (whom I love) and they added quite a few people to the list. I just don't know what to do about it. I talked to him about it and he was like "I can add a few hundred dollars". It isn't just that- we were trying to give money back to my parents. I am just frustrated. I want him to have people he really wants, but his parents aren't helping with anything at this point. I haven't had them offer at all. I am just irritated. I don't want to fight about it, but I am really feeling like crap. I am not enjoying it right now. I just don't know what to do.