OKay ladies I have another question....
So in my family I am the only daughter and granddaughter (and the first one to get married) and my family is pretty close, so naturally I would like my mom and dad to give their input in wedding planning and help with that stuff. I went with my mom and her mom and aunt to go try on dresses and ended up picking the one and that was special for all of us (especially since her aunt has no daughters).
For all the other wedding stuff, I want to know how much I should involve my FMIL. We are not really close but there's no disliking each other or anything. We get along, but we are just not close (my fiance is wayyyyyyy closer with my mom and dad but they put more of an effort than his parents do).
Also, my fiance has 2 sisters who still aren't married. So he will be the first child getting married, but his mom still has the opportunity to go through all the dress stuff and all the other wedding planning with his sisters when they get married.
She's the type of person who won't try to push any ideas, but if you ask her she might give you some info or whatever. She just will let you do your own thing. So I don't want to offend her by not letting her in on anything at all, but I don't know how much I should involve her or whatever.
Any suggestions at all??