Ok. So long story short (sort of) my FI and I are getting married 3/2/2013. I’ve never met his parents because they live in Vermont and have not come to visit my FI in the 4 years we’ve been together. His parents have really shown no interest at all about the wedding (this isn’t his first, but it’s my first). In fact, his parents haven’t attended his military graduation, military retirement, last wedding or college graduation. He doesn’t talk about it much but I can tell this really upsets him. It upsets me, too. It’s not fair. Lately, his mom has been voicing her “disapproval”. Not directly, but kind of hints towards it. I’m not sure why, she’s never met me nor does she know a thing about me. My FI is sure that they are not coming to the wedding, yet another life event they choose to miss out on. I so just want to call them up and ask them personally to attend. Like, maybe they won’t because he hasn’t asked and just assumes they don’t want to. Then again I’ve never even talked to his parents… Maybe that’s a bad impression bossing them around and such? I usually try and mind my own business. But I can’t stand when my FI is blue. Should I do anything about it? Or is this just not my fight?
"Love is like a butterfly; It goes where it pleases and pleases where it goes"
David & Roxy
March 2, 2013