I don't know if anyone else is having 'momma drama' but I totally am! I have been planning the wedding all of a week and both mom's are getting under my skin. Mom A (mine) is beyond negative, and gives me some annoying response whenever I try to share my excitement with her. (Last phone call told her my bridesmaid picks, and she said because they are girlfriends of the grooms cousins, they might breakup before my wedding and cause me problems. The call before that when I told her I was finally going to get married (after being engaged 5 yrs) she asked me if I was sure. (I've been with this same guy for 9 years btw). Mom B (grooms's mom) is even more annoying than my own. She wanted to bring her 13 year old daughter to a non kids wedding for her neice. She was told no, so got in a huge tyraid at her sister since July. She refused to attend the wedding, and will no longer speak to her sister. Now we are getting married and are not allowed to mention the neice's wedding, or mom B gets totally pissed and freaks out. We have not been adding any fuel to the fire, but she will for no reason freak out in the middle of a convo like we had mentioned her sister. On sunday I was going to go see a venue, and she had told the groom she didn't wanna talk to him, so I called one of my bridemaids to go with, and vin's aunt (the one the mom is pissed at) was at the house when I went to pick her up, so asked her to join me since she just finished going through all this and knew the questions to ask. Later Mom B figures out somehow she had gone with me and freaks out again saying that her sister is stealing her thunder, and wants me to look at other venues (even though I have already locked in my day and am getting a contract) because her sister had gone with me instead of her. This crap is beginning to get on my nerves, and I really want peace from the moms. No one else is a problem, and is actually going out of their way to make sure I'm doing alright in the middle of the chaos. Any suggestions to cool this hothead, or anyone know any good councilers (not sure of spelling) in the willowgrove, pa area? (I am not eloping to escape, because I still want the rest of the family to be there) Oh and wedding is not until May 26, 2013, so this is gonna be a very very long year if this doesn't end soon.