My fiance and I just got engaged last week, and we went to dinner with FMIL three days afterwards. We met her in the parking lot, and she loved my ring. When we sat down at the table, all the pleasantries stopped. She asked me, "So, what colors are you thinking of doing?" I love, love, love pink. The majority of the things I own are pink. FH knows this, and he is totally ok with a pink wedding. I told her pink and white were my colors. And with SUCH a disgusted look on her face, she says, "Oh. Well I was thinking blue."
Then she proceeded to launch into this speech to my FH:
"Now, the groom's parent's don't pay for any of the wedding. It's all the bride's parent's responsibility to pay for everything. You did make the big investment after all."
FH and I are paying for the wedding ourselves, and I thought it was so rude of her to say something like that in front of me.
It is still two years until the wedding, and she's already this hateful? How am I supposed to deal with this? Please help!