So my best friend of 21 years who currently lives in Alaska (I am in RI), told me Monday (7 weeks prior to my wedding) that she cannot afford to come down for my wedding. Besides being extremely upset and angry beyond belief, not to mention really screwing me over in getting another dress for another girl in time (impossible), she tells me she might be getting a raise and might be able to make it down for the wedding yesterday and is she still invited?
I told her Monday I can't wait on a maybe bridemaid, it is too close so she was OK with me finding someone else as an attendant but am I wrong for being upset and not wanting her to attend my wedding peroid? She upset me, is adding stress to an already stressful time, and has had a year and a half to save for this?
What do you think, should I tell her she is completely uninvited or am I breaking some cardinal bridal sin (fyi my groom does not want her there either).