Here's the situation, my fiance and I have picked who we would like as attendants in our wedding. 3 Bridesmaids/Groomsmen and a MOH and Best Man. However, I picked my Sister to be my MOH and my Sister in law to be a Bridesmaid. I am not extremely close to them, I live an hour away from them, they are very close live doors down from each other. I have already asked them both 2 weeks ago, and they will not give me a definitive answer on if they will actually be in the wedding party. I keep getting no replies to calls and text messages and when I bring it up in person its the run around. I've explained nicely to them that if they can't afford it that is fine, I will understand just please let me know A.S.A.P so I know what I'm going to do...NOTHING. What should I do? Should I start looking for other people to ask? Should I wait longer? Im stuck and really don't want to hurt feelings, but the sooner I know the sooner I can get the ball rolling here.