What is the etiquette for the MOG being the Bridal room when the bride is getting ready? My soon to be mother-in-law insists she should be there and that is how it is done. She stresses me out and tries to take over every situation. I want that time with my mom and my bridesmaids. My husband understands this and has requested that she help him, but she insists on being in my room. FYI, this is an island wedding. It is suppose to be laid back, not traditional.