So, I asked my best friend to be my MOH, she was so stoked! And even though I knew she was thinking about moving out of state it was not 100% deal. Well....shorty after we got engaged she decided it was a for sure thing. I think she felt guilty because she told me that she wouldn't move so she could be here becasue she felt guilty. I of course wanted her to stay (and told her so), but told her that she couldn't give up her dream of moving for me (god forbid anything happend I would feel horrible!). So she moved.... Its hard having her so far away.