Since we've been engaged I have discussed with her that the guys would get ready at her house, with her husband and 2 boys so the boys could be in the pictures but be able to play with their toys so they wouldn't get bored.
I emailed the timeline with this on it and she FREAKED. She said she never agreed to it and didn't know the boys were in the wedding party.
Before she contacted my fiance, she had to call everyone in her family within a few minutes of me sending out the email telling them how horrible of a person I am to expect this. I'm sure "bridezilla" came into the conversation.
She then proceeded to text FI and tell him that she was trying to not be a queen b1tch about all this and that she was waiting to hear about the boys being in the wedding (I was THERE when he told her).
She also said that since the groomsmen's tuxes were chosen that she assumed the boys weren't in the wedding. I didn't choose for the boys to wear the same tuxes cause it is $200 for each one. That's $400 for 2 boys! She told us when we got married that they could not afford much so I didn't want to burden her with that...I figured they could get something cheap at a kid's store. Since our wedding is 5 months out I hadn't discussed this detail, but why would she think this anyways?
I'm very tired of her drama. THere is always something. And when there IS something she always runs and tells everyone in the family first to try to get them on her side. Unfortunately it doesn't work well and everyone here is getting sick of it. Her mom sides with her cause she is in the US and doesn't actually KNOW everything that is actually going on.
I was emailing FI's family with some wedding updates, but will not be doing that anymore. I will keep everything to ourselves and they will see what is happening when the wedding happens.
anyone have any other advice?