My fiancee and I have been together for almost 2 years. We live together, MIL & FIL live about 5 minutes away from us. There has never been any problems between us. My fiancee asked my dad for my hand in marriage, we told his parents afterwords. His Mom became so upset she was not told "first" she refuses to talk to the both of us and says she is not attending the wedding, and his father is going along with it. Now my fiancee is a 36yo grown man, (I'm 25) he has lived on his own and then with me for a long time! super great guy never has done anything wrong or disrespected his parents in anyway. No clue why she would be so upset. Help!