First off I need to vent. Second flame away but I know I have a point weather you agree or not. Sorry but I neededc to say that beacuse I am sure I am going to get flamed.
OK so I got engaged September 2010 and I asked my cousin to be my MoH(probably my first mistake there). She was all gung ho and right on top of things. Then along comes the days after Christmas and before New Year's and guess who got engaged?
I am happy for her but here is my problem: her wedding is getting in the way of mine (her date is July of 2012 and mine is October 2011). Every single time I try and talk about my wedding she buts in with hers. Granted she has the right to be excited but her wedding is way after mine.
She has been counting down on facebook and she asked me if I really wanted a shower since I didn't sound excited about having one....not to mention she is taking over the family side of the guest list (there are some family that isn't being invited due to budget cost) so I feel like she is more concerned with her wedding rather than helping me with mine.
Oh and she has asked me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding and she is taking an idea I had and using it in her wedding( which bugs me but well she will look like the copy cat).
My thing is I don't know how to deal with her about the subject of "hey my wedding is coming first not yours"
Well flame away if you must but any advice would help.