OK, I need to vent. Im sure a ton of you have had the same problem. Today I went to look at bm dresses with two of my bridesmaids. I chose to have only two at first so that I wouldnt have too many opinions at one time. Well, during that whole hour of looking/ trying on dresses all I heard from one of them was, "I will NOT wear a long dress", "Ew I wont even try this on", "I dont have enough in the chest area for a sweetheart neckline" or "I cant drop it low in this dress, no way". After that last comment I was like, how do u plan on dancing at my wedding, jokingly. To that she said, "if i cant drop it low at your wedding I dont want to be in it". Im hoping she was kidding but I cant lie and say it didnt bother me. It was really frustrating because I had no say with what I wanted at all. Obviously I want them to like their dresses because they are buying them but I was getting frustrated that my opinion didnt matter to her. She never asked if I liked it and when I said I liked a certain dress she would say "no, the one I like is better". So at the end of the appointment when the person who worked there came to see which dresses I wanted to add to my file I had to insist on one dress I liked but she didnt as much as the one she picked. It was just frustrating.
Im not very good at confronting my friends in this type of situations because I feel bad. Any advice on how to deal with this situation?