I’m starting to get aggravated at my one bridesmaid, who also happens to be getting married a month before me.
Anyway the story goes like this:
She lives a state away in NJ. She found a bridesmaid dress that she liked at Macy’s. I could not find it at the Macy’s near me. So I sent her a check for $70 for the dress. The dress turned out to be only $55 with a Macy’s charge card. She was visiting my state, PA to see her grandmother that only lived 30 min. from my place. I offered to meet her half way to get my bridesmaid dress that she bought for me (which BTW ended up being 3 sizes too large and needs serious alterations) she ended up canceling at the last second (I was driving!) because she said she didn’t want to drive all that way (20mins!). I offered to go to her and she refused. She then said she would just send the dress through the mail. Fine.
OK so I was hoping I would get my $15 back since I sent extra money. No check with the dress. I asked her for it and she refused because she sent the dress through mail which cost $10. Ok..but I offered to save her money by picking the dress up from her??? How is that fair? It’s not like $15 is a big deal but it’s just like the principle of the matter. ALSO I have to get it majorly altered which will cost me at least another $50.
Anyway more to add to the story..she seems like she could care less about my wedding. I know because of being a bride too that she really doesn’t and that’s fine because I am busy too with my wedding plans. Still I asked my BMs to wear a plain black dress and just send me a picture of the dresses before the wedding so I can get red accessories to go with each dress. I asked her to send a picture of her dress for me. I have everyone else’s and I’m waiting for her picture. She has apparently 6 black dresses and won’t take one picture? I would like to have the picture soon so I can get all the accessories together and I have a lot of other meetings coming up so I want to have little details like this done. She is not responding to my message at all.
She is my BFF from high school but I haven’t seen her in about a year since she lives in NJ. She keeps planning things with me and then cancelling last second. I feel like telling her to forget the whole me being her BM and her being mine.
She spend $0 and I spent $70 ($15 which should be given back) plus another $50 or more for alterations. HOW is this fair?!