SO, me and my mother have never had a good relationship when I was in high school and now she always tried to control everything I did and if I didn't agree with her s*** would hit the fan! Well things started to get better once I moved out and we started working on our relationship more. When I got engaged though things changed, My mom has not even acted a little excited about it, when I told her we were planning an October 2012 wedding she said that she would have to miss her cruise that she wanted to take in August because of me, then she compeltely ignored everything I said I wanted at the wedding and suggested the same thing that her and my dad had at their wedding(which they always say they wish they would have done different).Any time I try to talk about wedding stuff with her she changes the subject or gets an attitude. I don't know what her problem is...she also went to the bridal show with me and only talked about her cruise she just booked the whole time, after she had just told us that she and my dad would barely be able to help and could only give us 5 grand, which is fine but we are paying for over half of the wedding ourselves and she tries to tell me that she gets to make all of the desicions because SHE is helping pay..I don't know what to do. I have tried telling her that I want this to be a fun experience and I want her envolved but she doesn't even act like for two seconds that she cares about it!