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nervousss!

i've never posted on this board, but my name's karina & i'm marrying a Marine. while he's been away on deployment i've been in charge of planning everything for our wedding. we're getting married on august 7, 2011...and it's coming up so fast! we recently had our first baby, so our budget has been really tight (especially with me paying off student loans, etc.) and i just feel like he's going to come home and think "wow, this is what she did with our money!" i mean, we're getting married in a church (nothing fancy at all) and our recpetion is also in the church. we're not even having a real reception. it's more of a mingle/meet & greet kind of thing...i kind of want him to myself as soon as we say i do lol! i just hope that he's not in total shock of what our wedding has turned out to be. he arrives home on the 5th, and bam, 2 days later he's a married man! i have a little bit of $ left in our budget, but i kind of want to save that for our honeymoon (he's only home for 10 days so we're just going up to the mountains)...our friends/family know that we're strapped for cash, so i hope they don't think our wedding is a total bust!
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Re: nervousss!

  • edited December 2011
    sorry! i meant to post this on the military board!
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  • edited December 2011
    Hi sweetie-
    Don't worry!  He asked you to marry him, and your union is the important part.  The rest is just accessory.  He will love it.  Men don't have an eye for detail anyway! :)
    Also you'll probably get at least some cash/checks at the wedding, so you can splurge on something nice on your honeymoon.  Since he hasn't been home to help you plan the wedding, you can both be involved in picking out a nice piece of art for your home, or a fancy dinner out :)
    Good luck and have a wonderful time!
  • mandi921vhmandi921vh member
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    edited December 2011
    I agree with PP, I doubt he will even notice those things. All he cares about is being with you :)
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  • Piston89Piston89 member
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    edited December 2011

    I'm sure he will be super excited!! Congrats on the baby!!

    Please remember to be careful with OPSEC....

    (I am also a military wife)

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